Yesterday I ran into a friend,whom I have not seen in awhile, at work. He was really happy to see me and we caught up with each other for a few minutes. One of my coworkers came up to me and told me that there was a truck waiting to be unloaded. I told him that Ill be there in a couple minutes and he left. My friend asked "What was all that about?"
I asked him what was he talking about. He told me that my body language was very defensive. That my body was squared up to my coworkers,my eyes starred at him,hardly blinking and my hands tensed up. He could tell that I was about ready to fight him. I told him that I just didnt like working here. However,This got me thinking;Does everybody else size people up?
Do we do it to only people we dont like or even people that we like but think that in the back of our minds what we can do if it got to "that point"? And people that we dont even know or just met? Is it only guys that do this;where we are always calculating how to fight and win against other dudes?