Wondering if any of you have a good resource for explaining TRT to your wife. Specifically in regards to libido.
I am 45 and have been exploring TRT for a while. I had labs done and have been discussing with a men’s clinic, and I am about to give it a try. One of the main drivers for this has been my lack of libido. I still love my wife and find her attractive, but I have very little sex drive and it has taken a big toll on our marriage. When I try to explain this to her, and my hope that TRT will be helpful to restore my sex drive, she seems to think that my lack of libido has more to do with something else (like she doesn’t do it for me anymore, or I am not attracted to her, or it is something in my head) and that if I do take TRT it will just be a “fake” attraction and that I will only want her because I am on a drug. Libido is not a problem for her, and of course, all she hears from society is that men want sex all the time.
It seems like a natural thing for her to think about, but I’m wondering if any of you have been through this or if there is a good resource that she can read or watch specifically for wives of men that are being treated with TRT.