Okay, I’ve pondered posting about this for weeks, but honestly this place seems as good as any to ask, considering I know a lot of people on here have struggled due to PED use and whatnot.
So I’ve always had performance anxiety, even when I was a teenager, it would take weeks before i was comfortable enough (and drunk enough) to have sex with a new partner. After that, smooth sailing. But that first time or two was always a pain.
Also abused the fuck out of dextromethorphan as a teenager and think that had some serious long term effects.
However, in my last long term relationship (8 years) I could catch a nip slip 8 years in and be ready to knock down walls. I figured I had gotten past it.
Well on to new things, I had a couple of partners this year with mixed results, ended up getting a script for some slidenafil, thinking maybe it was just more performance anxiety and it would give me a bump to get over that hill. Well. That shit certainly works, havent had so much sex in my entire life, but it definitely isnt performance anxiety anymore. I’ve been with the new lady for about 3 months now, and I dont always need it, but arguably more often than not, I do. The sex drive is there, I’m ready to fucking go, and it just doesnt happen.
Shes super cool about it, and I put in the work every night no matter what. Like I said, turned on, so we’ll have fun, just sometimes cant actually get it up.
Any advice? I’m pretty damn healthy. 6’3, 220lbs. Active at my job and in the gym, about as happy and upbeat as I’ve ever been.
Ive read about cialis, is the generic affordable with insurance, and uncommon underlying issues worth checking out?
This is super uncomfortable for me, but like I said, this board seemed like the best public forum to ask on