Find a new doctor. Just because you are "in range" doesn't mean you aren't having symptoms. If you like your doctor, explain to her what is going on with you and why you want treatment (quality of life, etc). Many have found that most doctors just simply aren't educated on TRT, or have very "old school" methods or thoughts regarding it. She may be open once she understands what's going on with you.
Be aware that many endos/urologists are also clueless. You may have better luck with your PCP once she is educated. In the sticky section is a good thread for how to find a good doctor. Also - many of the vitality clinics are super expensive, and aren't necessarily the best at true TRT.