Hey fellow T-Nationers, my wife, for some reason, decided to go through my computer’s history and found that I had visited some adult websites. I kind of figured that would be obvious considering my previous history as a dude. But she is telling me that no married man ever looks at porn and it is the same as cheating.
This started like 2 years ago and she has since busted me like 3 more times. Is it that big of a deal for a married dude to be looking at women on the internet? Am I some sort of sexual deviant?
It’s not like I’m taking sexy-time away from her, or looking at it constantly. But, if I’m at home alone, I maychance peruse a few adult oriented sites.
Your wife does neither own your dick nor your sexuality.
Tell her the only way you will not spank the monkey is if she is utterly draining you and your favorite site is IDeepThroat and yes, it does exist.
Seriously, this is a major power play to make her the only source of sexual release and if you let that happoen she will start manipulating you through at best uninspired and lifeless sex.
You dont have to be a dick about it, but I would make very, very, very clear that is totally up to you when, how and to what you wrangle your very own snake.
I was once told that a man who really cares for a woman does not look at other women, he does not even see them as sexual beings.
I said: What !?!
She said all her Exes told her so.
I said that they were either lying or, with any luck, out of the closet by now.
Also, women are not generally known for using copious amounts of logic or reason in situations where they can gain some higher ground by giving you grief for a few days.
Also, women are not generally known for using copious amounts of logic or reason in situations where they can gain some higher ground by giving you grief for a few days.[/quote]
Nards is usually correct about things, but especially so in this case…
See, that’s what I have said to her repeatedly. But, she kind of has me by the balls, because I had promised her that I wouldn’t look any more to get her to stop yelling at me.
I typically use private browsing. But I slipped up a few times, and she promptly called me out on it.
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
Orion are you married? [/quote]
No, but I have been in LTRs, and if anyone, ever, gets into my computer, this little hacking Ninja will not even finish the sentence “I am very disappointed with what I found on your…”
because it is literally over with “your”.
If you think that “marriage” equals handing your balls over, wearing a nice litle tutu, what is wrong with you?
You kicked the Nazis asses, defeated the Sowjet Union and now a suburban housewife acts up like a Polit Com,issar?
Fuck no Comrade, if marriage ever gets THIS bad over here, I move to Indonesia and marry a 19 year old.
[quote]RynoSmash wrote:
See, that’s what I have said to her repeatedly. But, she kind of has me by the balls, because I had promised her that I wouldn’t look any more to get her to stop yelling at me.
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Next time, yell, no, roar back and dont promise stupid shit.
