Metrosexuality and similar topics always raises gender identity question.
Most of the time, masculinity is defined as non-feminine or opposite-to-feminine.
Surprisingly, no one offers the definition of Feminine.
Kind of hard to ‘hit the target’ when no one agrees on its definition.
I don’t proclaim to have THE definition. I know this however (feel free to call me sexist), but I clearly considering ‘investing a good amount of energy and/or personality in the aim of pleasing others / getting attention’ as feminine far more (very) than masculine.