I have had enough. I’ve been an upstanding member of T-Nation for a long time and I feel the need to defend myself against attack on this forum. Yes, my ex-fiance (TACHICK) registered here basically to harrass me online. Be advised, nearly everything she says is a complete lie. Here’s the facts:
We split up on July 31.
She is an alcoholic. Lost jobs & wrecked her car because of it. She hides her bottles around the house. She has been admitted to the mental health ward at Adena Hospital for alcoholism and attempted suicide. They diagnosed her with Dependant Personality Disorder, Depression, and Substance Abuse.
She has stalked me every since we split. I have over 300 documented phone calls and voice-mails from her. She calls and harrasses my parents, brother, and other frineds at all hours of the day & nite. Obviously she has no job or she wouldn’t be posting on here so much (check the times on her posts). She has been arrested 4 times for various reasons. She has 9 counts currently pending against her: 4 counts of violating the Restraining Order I have on her, Aggravated Menacing, Criminal Damaging, Disorderly Conduct, Domestic Violence, and Telephone Harrassment (check the proof - circlevillecourt.com…click access court records…search last name “haught”).
She currently has 180 days in the county hanging over her head if she violates the RO again. She has been caught and arrested for putting sugar in my gas tank. She did or had someone bust the window out of my truck. She has repeatedly (we’re talking 50+ times) come to my house, even going so far as to leave me pizzas & other groceries on my doorstep.
For all you guys that are hitting on her in here (or she has hit on), for some reason, she feels the need to forward all your PM’s to me.
I got her started working out and introduced her to competitive benching. Her best was 125 raw and 150 officially, with a shirt. She has never weighed 130. Last I saw her, she had gained alot of fat and I estimate her being about 165.
She is NOT pregnant. Way too many inconsistencies in her story for her to be pregnant. I have PM’s indicating she’s 6 weeks along, and when I questioned her on it, she changed it to 11 weeks along the very next day…baby is due conicidentally on my birthday. She is still drinking and taking Vicodin. She supposedly confirmed the pregnancy 2 weeks along, by ultrasound at her family doctor’s office. There are so many other facts that prove she isn’t pregnant, but I won’t get into it now.
There is no way possible that she did my buddy in my Intrepid. I traded it in for my Grand Prix 6 months before the time she says she slept with him.
When she was in the county jail, she had contact with one of my friends (a deputy) for a total of 10 minutes. He called to tell me that she sent him a card and an extremely sexually explicit love letter. She has also been noticed sitting in front of his house stalking him too. Poor guy is married with a kid and has to deal with this.
She posts all these stories about how much casual sex she has had recently and then PM’s me to tell me she hasn’t been with anyone since we split. Anyone need proof? I have saved the PMs.
I have NEVER hit her. I am a corrections officer and a powerlifter. I know what damage I could do and also know I’d lose my job. She is the violent one, especially when she is drinking. Our last encounter, she punched me in the face, spit in my face, and I had to restrain her and remove her from my house. She has cracked the bedroom door, broken glasses by throwing them at me, and put holes in the drywall.
Basically, I am tired of my name being dragged thru the proverbial mud. Thanks for taking the time to read this and please don’t let yourself be sucked into her BS. She simply can’t accept rejection and the fact that I have moved on with my life…