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Defending Myself...

T-Nation:

I have had enough. I’ve been an upstanding member of T-Nation for a long time and I feel the need to defend myself against attack on this forum. Yes, my ex-fiance (TACHICK) registered here basically to harrass me online. Be advised, nearly everything she says is a complete lie. Here’s the facts:

We split up on July 31.
She is an alcoholic. Lost jobs & wrecked her car because of it. She hides her bottles around the house. She has been admitted to the mental health ward at Adena Hospital for alcoholism and attempted suicide. They diagnosed her with Dependant Personality Disorder, Depression, and Substance Abuse.

She has stalked me every since we split. I have over 300 documented phone calls and voice-mails from her. She calls and harrasses my parents, brother, and other frineds at all hours of the day & nite. Obviously she has no job or she wouldn’t be posting on here so much (check the times on her posts). She has been arrested 4 times for various reasons. She has 9 counts currently pending against her: 4 counts of violating the Restraining Order I have on her, Aggravated Menacing, Criminal Damaging, Disorderly Conduct, Domestic Violence, and Telephone Harrassment (check the proof - circlevillecourt.com…click access court records…search last name “haught”).

She currently has 180 days in the county hanging over her head if she violates the RO again. She has been caught and arrested for putting sugar in my gas tank. She did or had someone bust the window out of my truck. She has repeatedly (we’re talking 50+ times) come to my house, even going so far as to leave me pizzas & other groceries on my doorstep.

For all you guys that are hitting on her in here (or she has hit on), for some reason, she feels the need to forward all your PM’s to me.

I got her started working out and introduced her to competitive benching. Her best was 125 raw and 150 officially, with a shirt. She has never weighed 130. Last I saw her, she had gained alot of fat and I estimate her being about 165.

She is NOT pregnant. Way too many inconsistencies in her story for her to be pregnant. I have PM’s indicating she’s 6 weeks along, and when I questioned her on it, she changed it to 11 weeks along the very next day…baby is due conicidentally on my birthday. She is still drinking and taking Vicodin. She supposedly confirmed the pregnancy 2 weeks along, by ultrasound at her family doctor’s office. There are so many other facts that prove she isn’t pregnant, but I won’t get into it now.

There is no way possible that she did my buddy in my Intrepid. I traded it in for my Grand Prix 6 months before the time she says she slept with him.

When she was in the county jail, she had contact with one of my friends (a deputy) for a total of 10 minutes. He called to tell me that she sent him a card and an extremely sexually explicit love letter. She has also been noticed sitting in front of his house stalking him too. Poor guy is married with a kid and has to deal with this.

She posts all these stories about how much casual sex she has had recently and then PM’s me to tell me she hasn’t been with anyone since we split. Anyone need proof? I have saved the PMs.

I have NEVER hit her. I am a corrections officer and a powerlifter. I know what damage I could do and also know I’d lose my job. She is the violent one, especially when she is drinking. Our last encounter, she punched me in the face, spit in my face, and I had to restrain her and remove her from my house. She has cracked the bedroom door, broken glasses by throwing them at me, and put holes in the drywall.

Basically, I am tired of my name being dragged thru the proverbial mud. Thanks for taking the time to read this and please don’t let yourself be sucked into her BS. She simply can’t accept rejection and the fact that I have moved on with my life…

I was wondering when you were going to address this.

I’m not sure what the motivation is, but to come into your playground and tell the world her tales and rip on you is pretty low IMO.

I think you are opening a hornets nest here and I don’t think anyone really cares what she says about you. You shouldn’t worry about it, but I think you are right to defend yourself.

IMO when I seen her posts about it, i ignored it. No offense to you or her, but far to much drama in most of her posts for me to bother with.

I wouldnt lose sleep over it.

Actually, I just read your post and man, this is a real life Springer episode live here on T-Nation!
Yeeeehaw!

This is shitty.

color me surprised… not

Her posts have “crazy” all over them. She recently posted “That’s why I’m never having kids!” in some thread - a very strange thing for a pregnant woman to say.

Good luck, antman.

This threads got all the potential in the world.

My only comment is have you seen the body on that girl?

Did anyone else think about Easy E as you read through this drama? Dude, save yourself now and go into hiding.

Antman, as a public service, I think you should reveal the names of all those who hit on her via PMs. (I’m kidding of course … sort of.)

[quote]BarneyFife wrote:
My only comment is have you seen the body on that girl? [/quote]

Yes, very recently. I’m guessing she weighs about 165-170 now. The smallest she ever got was about a 7 and 138 lbs. She is 5’7". The last I saw her, she had some nice belly rolls goin’ on. Heavy drinking will do that to you. I’ll be willing to bet any pics she posted were from long ago.
Yes, I may be starting some shit now, but I am tired of getting slammed on here for no reason.

To everyone else…thank you for your support.

I never understood why she was posting all this hate towards you, while at the same time, it seemed, she was posting pictures of you in the TILF thread and talking about how hot you were???

Maybe that was some other boyfriend, but yea, definitely got the crazy vibe from her.

I also wondered why there wasn’t one training related post at all in her profile.

Only making comments about guys and sex.

That’s fine and all, but this is a bb website, and most here do/should be talking about some sort of fitness once in a while.

[quote]Antman517 wrote:
BarneyFife wrote:
My only comment is have you seen the body on that girl?

Yes, very recently. I’m guessing she weighs about 165-170 now. The smallest she ever got was about a 7 and 138 lbs. She is 5’7". The last I saw her, she had some nice belly rolls goin’ on. Heavy drinking will do that to you. I’ll be willing to bet any pics she posted were from long ago.
Yes, I may be starting some shit now, but I am tired of getting slammed on here for no reason.[/quote]

Sorry, my mistake, I was talking about the pictures in her profile, and people change.

I don’t understand why she posts four posts in a row, we all post twice sometimes, but people are allowed a few sentences per post.

I’m bipolar and I find her shit (and this thread) to be completely crazy.

OK, I just had to go back to the thread where she posted her ultrasound pic to reread. Then I thought, gee wouldn’t it be interesting to do a quick internet search to see if the identical pic showed up. Sure enough…

http://www.T-Nation.com/readTopic.do?id=1200112&pageNo=2#1266716

Sounds to me like everything you’ve said is true. I’m not sure if I feel sorrier for her or you!

[quote]BarneyFife wrote:
My only comment is have you seen the body on that girl? [/quote]

If it wears panties, you like it.

[quote]SWR-1240 wrote:
I never understood why she was posting all this hate towards you, while at the same time, it seemed, she was posting pictures of you in the TILF thread and talking about how hot you were???

Maybe that was some other boyfriend, but yea, definitely got the crazy vibe from her.
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I got a very strange vibe as well. She responded to an insult from Classy_Cojones THREE times, quoting the same block of text each time. Wierd. Then there’s the constant machine-gun pace posting, also wierd.

[quote]BarneyFife wrote:
My only comment is have you seen the body on that girl? [/quote]

That doesn’t make up for jack. I was with this sex fiend with huge tits(40DD,s baby), a thin waist, and big’ol hips, and I would never go back. EVER. The lies, drama, and chaos is never worth it.

[quote]SBB wrote:
Did anyone else think about Easy E as you read through this drama? Dude, save yourself now and go into hiding.

Antman, as a public service, I think you should reveal the names of all those who hit on her via PMs. (I’m kidding of course … sort of.)

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SBB I was thinking the same thing. Especially since she says she is moving to be closer to him. Easy better run.