No education, he doesn’t really have a job… Or nobody know what it is. He drives a Range Rover. Has been arrested few times.
He stole from my GF. He stole from her brother (nephew).
My girlfriend used to be insecure about her weight. She used to work in a bank. Her uncle convinced her to do illegal stuff. She confessed soon after what she did but it was too late. She now has a criminal record (will go away) and bankrupt. I know this is true because I was there during whole court process. It almost ruined my GF’s dream of becoming a nurse.
He is a smooth talker and comes across as a very nice guy.
Anyways… Me and GF have a baby. I don’t want this uncle to ever come close. Luckily he lives in different city. But same state.
The problem is… My girlfriend forgave him. Her mom (uncle’s sister) really hasn’t done much. Most of the family doesn’t know.
This uncle will be there at family events. Should my family not go? Go and pretend like nothing happened? Forgive him? I will not be able to look at this guy in the eye and shake his hand. Or talk to him. And let him be around or hold my child. I seem to be the only one that’s really pissed at this guy.