Oh my fucking god. Don’t tell me you are afraid of the “forum liberals”. Fuck 'em.
I have a seven year old son and have been told by many a person that he is the most respectful and well behaved child they’ve ever encountered. They ask about my parenting style and assume he’s one of those “angel children”. Wow, are they ever wrong. As you may be able to gather, I have a rather strong personality - his is almost stronger. Any “devil child” out there has nothing on him. With one small exception: From the age of 8 months (when he started walking) to the age of 4, I disciplined the shit out of him. I strongly felt that I needed to get a handle on him from the get-go or the next 18 years would be hell. You know what? He is now one of those “angel children” - and I attribute it all to the fact that I beat him three times a day whether he needed it or not. Now all I have to do is give him the “mom glare” or say the word “One” (three equals a beating) and he jumps to obey. He will question me, and I’m OK with that, as long as he’s obeying in the process of questioning me.
Without the STRONG discipline/domination from an early age, he’d have been where your daughter is now - and where she’ll be in 5 years if you don’t be a man and take control of your home. Who the fuck is going to let a 2 year old run the house but a pussy? This is not necessarily an insult to you (well, it is - and a wake up call), but this is something you have the power to change. Quit your bitching and do something about it.
Hate me, flame me… Fuckin’ whatever. The proof is in his behavior, his respectfulness, his loving and giving heart, his grades, and his leaping into my arms whenever he sees me to get more huggin’. You can have the same result. Do it, or bear the consequences.