I am asking for input here, seen as many of the threads now posted here are about dating.
Situation: 6 months ago, I meet a girl, who is dating a guy in a long distance relationship. But things aren’t going so well, and she is very interested in me. So we started dating, and eventually we became very intimate. Basically, we WERE bf/gf but she was technically dating this other guy.
I wanted here to break up with him, but she kept saying that because they had dated so long, she couldn’t just ‘call him up’ and break it off. She told me it didn’t matter anyways, because her and I were for all intents and purposes bf/gf anyways, so whats the rush? I accepted this because I had tried to push the issue, but didn’t want to hurt her by being too pushy, so whatever.
Here I am thinking that alls good and then BOOM, this xmas she decided to break up with him. She went back to her hometown, and brought him along. And then…
THEY HAD SEX.
And then she broke up with him.
I know she wants to be with me, and honestly, I really really want to be with her too, but can I trust her? Before christmas, I specifically asked her if I could trust her not to ‘fuck around’ with this guy, and she promised me I could. She has said she’s falling in love with me, but what does this xmas tryst say about that.?!?!
So WTF am I supposed to do?!??!?!!?
She cheated on me, right!??!?!?
She said that it just happened, that she was drunk, and that it meant nothing to her. I decided to tell her that we needed to go on a break, so for the time being we aren’t seeing each other, but if I wanted I could make it happen. She was very sad when I told her we need the break, but she said she understanded my need to do so.
I feel she’s in the wrong, and I don’t know if I can trust her… But I like her so much I don’t know whether to go with my heart, and forgive her, or my head, and dump her.
Help me, t-men and vixens!