Do you actually KNOW any Orthodox Jewish women? I sure do. Married two. Fathered 4 to adulthood and two small children.
Two doctors, two doctors to be, one a mathematician that will probably be somehow involved in getting a Nobel Prize (I am speculating, but not really).
All combat vets.
Nobody is going to make them do anything they don't want to do.
If Orthodox Judaism was the boogeyman it is sterotyped as, I'd hate it too. It's not, however.
It is also expressly non-evangelical (by which I mean, seeking converts). The contract at Mt. Sinai is a contract with my people.
As you are not part of the contract, it has no bearing on you, except perhaps as a guide to moral living (and a rather good one, at that).