So for probably the 9-10th time I woman that I just started dating for about a month suddenly out of nowhere says they don’t want to see me any more. This time the response was “I think I’m still in love with my ex” but many others have said things like “I just think it’s getting too serious” or just “I had a great time and don’t ever change but I don’t see you as a romantic partner”. Now sure that all sounds familiar right, but this is after we have had tons of great sex, never had a fight, have given each other plenty of space, and just start an exclusive relationship and then WHAM hits out of nowhere like a month into it. So for my background, I’m very handsome, am physically and mentally strong and muscular, 29, own a successful business, and am pretty much on top of the moon happy every day of my life and never complain. Yet I keep getting dumped totally out of nowhere. I’m talking about going from “I love you!” from them to 2 hours later breaking up with me without me saying anything in between. So here’s the question, are other people getting this same sort of thing right now? Is it me or do women just not want exclusive boyfriends any more? I’m happy just banging chicks but I grew up around healthy relationships where you can be a little more vulnerable and it would be cool to have that too. Am I alone in this?
I should add I’m not a big fat pussy or ugly dude or boring person or anything just can’t figure it out.