This might sound crazy to you, but I will try to explain my case.
31y old, with big libido (not so much erection) problem since my mid twenties.
I live really healthy lifestyle, good diet and supplementation, intense workouts since my teen years, I never smoke and drink, I’m in great physical condition and really satisfied with my looks.
But problem with libido is really killing me -Currently I’m dating a very good looking girl, she is absolutely stunning in every single aspect - Amazing face, her butt is out of this planet. But the problem is, when we are about to have sex I feel absolutely no urge. Zero.
Sometimes it takes 45-60min of foreplay for me to get an errection and even then I don’t feel horny and I just can’t wait for it to finish. I’m relaxed and don’t feel anxious before sex, I only get frustrated during foreplay when I can’t get myself horny.
And this problem followed me since my 23/24y with every single girl I’v been.
So far, I tried every pde5 inhibitor but they don’t help as obviously blood flow is not the problem.
I also tries pt 141 (bremelanotide) higher dosage and it didn’t work.
I regularly use higher dosage of herbal medicine (black maca, ashwagandha, tribulus) and feel no improvement in libido.
Last year, I even tried 500m testo + proviron for 8 weeks solely for libido improvement (for the first time in my life) but I felt absolutely no imrovement in my sexual desire.
How ever, at one point, I remember running 1/4 clomid + 1/4 arimidex 2x weekly and condition improved a bit. I’v been thinking to try out this combo again.
What do you guys think, do you have any suggestion for my problem?
I forgot to mention, I have visited different urologists and endo’s and they couldn’t help me.
I’m mentioning again, my erections are solid when I get going, but its very rarely - I have no interest in sex, I never watch pornography etc.