I think you'd find that PM's are completely personal, and the mods can't see yours. I think the only way they'd go into your PM's is if there was a BIG problem. And even then, they'd probably have to change your password to do it, so you'd know.
That's funny. I had a guy from a ( completely unrelated ) forum once offer to pay my planefare to his hometown so he could 'beat the shit outa me'. He was from a one-horse town near as I could tell ( no amusement parks ), so I declined. Now, if chinadoll, you want to pay my planefare to Hawaii, and beat the shit out of me.......... let's talk. LOL.