To me it just sounds like a really ugly breakup, and the phone messages he left are just of a pissed off guy cursing out his (soon to be) ex-wife. That said, yeah, he sounds like a total tool and a lousy-ass husband, but the "child porn" allegations sounded like total BS, as there's plenty of adult porn where women put on schoolgirl skirts and pig tails and such and do a young girl roleplaying type of thing. Oh, and having shaven hoo-ha's is pretty darn common too. It doesn't sound like he was into any acutal child porn.
She claims he pushed her down at one point. Maybe, maybe not. Who the hell knows? It's an ugly, public divorce that's going on, so who the hell knows what to make of her claims?
He's clearly a scumbag, and apparently so is she.