[quote]Iron Dwarf wrote:
[quote]IamMarqaos wrote:
This is how I roll
My wife adopted her two years ago. I was highly allergic and of course she took to me only. Three months of Allegra pills the size of hockey pucks and I got used to her. Never was a cat person now love this one to no end. She is a real bitch though, doesn’t like anyone but me. Wife isn’t pleased about that one at all haha.[/quote]
HEHE! I’m terribly allergic to them as well.
Interesting how she took to you, Marq.
I don’t know the social structure of felines. Is it anything like canines, where there’s an alpha and lesser hierarchy?[/quote]
From what I understand, it’s kind of a mix. Many cats are generally loners (lions are a notable exception), and very territorial. Even within the same household, there can be a lot of “this is my room, that’s your room” type of behavior. When there is shared territory, and they have to get along, it seems they generally manage that with a hierarchy.
Probably the biggest thing I noticed with my cat – and I’ve never seen it with any other cat – is that every few weeks he attempts to challenge my dominance in the household. Nothing aggressive, instead he’ll intentionally break the rules, and I’ll need to once again re-establish that he needs to listen to me.
“Get down”
looks at me, looks away, ignores me
“Get down now!”
stares at me, challenging
At which point it’s usually a combination of getting up in his face, maintaining eye contact, and hissing at him. Sometimes I have to physically pick him up and move him, to indicate that I am physically superior to him. Then things are good for another few weeks.
In contrast, my girlfriend’s cat never challenges my authority. While her cat still sometimes “breaks the rules when I’m not looking”, it’s never overt disobedience.
My cat’s kind of an ass though; when he wants something, he just goes for it. Not a timid bone in his body. When we feed them, we have to spread the food across the floor. Even then, my cat will still push her cat out of the way, then put himself in the most advantageous position ON TOP OF the food, so he can claim it.
So while dogs typically submit if you maintain eye contact, with cats, it seems they’re most responsive if you both stare and hiss at them. It just took me awhile to get used to doing it. They do respond better to that than just raising your voice.
A very basic explanation of cat behavior: