In for your log, 53 years here and 5/3/1 myself.
As far as I can tell from your logs, you did 2 full cycles of 5/3/1
Only recorded the last 1’s week right
week 3 of cycle 1 you did: Sq 190, DL 215, B 125, OHP 90
week 3 of cycle 2 you did: Sq 215, DL 245, B 160, OHP 105
So for the first cycle of squats you had a TM at around 200 lbs and the second cycle TM was 225 an increase of 25 pounds, and for the others you have an increase of about 30, 35 and 15. wich is a lot.
I don’t think Jim would approve that you were improving the TM by that much. The program calls for a 10 pound increase for lower and 5 pound for upper.
I would suggest that you follow Jims advice for the next cycle an only increase by 10 and 5 pounds. At the MOST.
That out of the way and for your question: about what to do with a week off.
You have done 2 full cycles and could use a deload week as you suggest.
Monday you could go in work up to last weeks top weight and do a single no more and do that for all 4 lifts… if you have the time. Then you have a deload week, were you only do the “hotel gym” lifting. Not going balls out on anything, keep things nice and easy.
When you come back: increase TM by ONLY 10 and 5 pounds. OR repeat your last cycle beat your previst + sets by one rep. Squat and bench looks to be fine, but DL and OHP with only 5 on the last week, might be a little to high. You might find yourself stalling out pretty quickly.
Well I hope you’ll find your way through the next weeks. I guess what matters for you is Bjj, and not so much the lifting other than it being a supplement to Bjj.