I get my toenails done. The last time, I did like a sparkly blue color. I let my son pick it out.
I think this whole thing means something COMPLETELY different depending on what age group / demographic we’re talking about. For instance: my son is 8. When he gets colored nails, it’s because he’s a kid and he thinks it’s fun. It has absolutely nothing to do with sexuality or gender.
For me, it’s because a) I wear flip flops all the time, and b) it’s an expression of ‘I can do whatever the fuck I want, and I dare you to tell me I can’t have pink nail polish.’
Also, nah. This is such a regional opinion. What you’re saying is just 10000% not true in big cities.
I saw a lot of weirdness/personal expression in college that disappeared after graduation. A LOT of male friends got eyebrow/lip rings, grew their hair out, colored it blue, dressed ridiculously, whatever. Basically all of them grew out of it in a couple years. It’s really not a big deal IMO. If you go to college in a big city, you’re going to see a lot of this. Even at my relatively conservative university, it was prominent.
Better not send him to a big school then, lol.
Fucking absolutely. I don’t EVER have my masculinity questioned, and I wear crop tops, jorts, and paint my nails. All of the other aspects of who I am scream masculine, there’s no mistaking who I am and what I stand for, regardless of how I dress.
For Andrew, I would say this is FAR more important. If my son comes home looking like… IDK, whatever. He can look like ANYTHING as far as I’m concerned. Wear whatever the fuck he wants. As long as he’s kind and respectful to others, and has a strong value system, I will trust that he will be successful and happy, and that is quite literally all I care about for him.