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Bitches ain't nuttin but tricks and hoes

OK, having recently come off a fairly serious relationship I am having trouble moving on. What are some of the best ways that you guys have gotten over a girl/relationship(Besides going out and nailing the next 6 chicks you see)


:slight_smile: Groove

Read, don’t drink, work overtime. Hang out with positive people. Clean your house. If not in school, take a class. Avoid sleeping excessively. Don’t date for a while. If a coversation starts with a member of the fairer sex, avoid past relationship talk. Do what made you happy before you met her.

Do exactly what Jay just said.

Try spending some of your money on yourself. Go get a couple of toys or take a few trips to visit friends in other parts of the country.

Consider yourself lucky! Bro, you are single again. Do you not realize what these means? Besides being able to hump the next available female, it means you have more time for yourself. Take advantage of it! Not only will you save money, but you have more time to workout, hang with your friends and do things you like to do! Shit, that sounds real good. Maybe I should break up with my girlfriend now!

Nate Dogg is right. The goal is to be comfortable with being single again before you go out looking for another relationship. Else, you’ll be on the perpetual rebound…

As far as ‘getting over’ her, it isn’t so much about ‘getting over’ as it is ‘moving on’. That relationship will always be a part of you. Learn from it! In the meantime, DON’T LISTEN TO THE RADIO. It will just make things difficult for you. :slight_smile:


And I believe Dre and Snoop said, “Bitches ain’t shit but hos and tricks.” Wisdom… -Alex

I recently ended things w/my longtime gf of almost 5 yrs…here is what I did:

First two weeks I went out ALOT, it’s amazing how resoponsive females are if you are in good shape and somewhat attractive and attentive…trust me the random hotties will come(if that is what you are looking for).

Second, I went on a cycle…nothing major, just tren/dbol/4adec…if you don’t do the gear thing, go on mag-10 or something and concentrate on making a big change in your appearance. I have put on 10lbs in the past three weeks and the confidence level/wired feeling off the tren is mindblowing.

I thought it was going to be so hard to get on w/my life b/c i was so accustomed to having her around, but when you look back at how your relationship has deteriorated you realize that this was the BEST thing to happen to you. Now I don’t know your age, but I’m 24 and this is the prime time of my life and sitting there feeling sorry for yourself or thinking “Oh man how am I gonna get her back” is just STUPID.

avoid Country music!!!

If Christian Thib’s makes it here to Texas and takes me up on the offer to buy wings and beer at Hooters, coordinate the time. how can those fine ol’ pieces resist 3 (+) T-men?

Thanks guys, and you are right it is “bitches Ain’t shit but tricks and hoes” Good old Snoop and Dre.lol
The advice I have gotten so far is good and I have been making some inroads with a couple Kinesiology hotties the last couple of days so things are looking up.


:slight_smile: Groove

Man, I wouldn’t worry about any other females right now. It’s only a quick fix to get your mind off your ex and move on. But it’s nothing but short-term satisfaction for something you need to ultimately take care of on your own. So go do what you like to do. Re-establish relationships with friends that were pushed to the side while you were in a relationship. Go out, have fun, train hard, spend money on yourself and get up on old hobbies or interests. Forget the women for a while, otherwise, you may be right back to relationship troubles and all sorts of bullshit. I know, it’s easier said than done, but when you’re ready, you’ll do it!

Bad Dogg!!! Shouldn’t you be working and not checking out the forum. I wish I had a job where I could surf the forum during work hours. Check that, I wish I had a job period…


I think you are right, but there’s little asian girl who is so cute and has an ass like you wouldn’t believe. Definetly easier said than done!! Problem is I don;t really have anyone out here who I would call a true friend because I just recently moved out here for school. I guess now would be a good time to concentrate on making some new friends…MAn I am lame. Have you had any experience dating asian girls!!! I know they love the goatees and nipple rings so I am assuming you do…


:slight_smile: Groove

Drugs and alchohol are your only solution…

Nothing pisses me off more than when people fuck up quotes.

It’s “Bitches aint shit but hoes and tricks…”

I always get the most shit done right after I break up with someone. I become this insane machine–workouts, ultra strict diet, clean house, and I work on my writing, which is like my pet project. I wrote an entire novel after I broke up with my last girlfriend. I apparently have to break up with my current one to get the impetus to write another one, though.


Heh.


d/c

Just, think you have more time to plan your work-outs around.

Yeah, I’ve dated a few Asian girls. Unfortunatley, I just wasn’t attracted physically enough to continue more than a few casual dates or make-out sessions. Some Asian girls are hella hot, but I’ve just never been into any enough to take it the next level. Every once in a while I get the fever for the flavor for an Asian honey, but every time I do, I end up meeting someone else or being involved already. What can you do?