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Best Thing I've Read Today


I'm in a confusing situation right now having mixed feelings about a girl, but this made me feel like I just need to man up and go for it. Also Keyshia Cole's "Heaven Sent," helped (No Homo) lol.

In regard to dating or anything worth your while for that matter:

There are three things you can do in any situation. The best thing is the right thing. The second best thing is the wrong thing. However, the worst is doing nothing at all.

IDK it just hit home that anything worthwhile needs you to take that chance whether right or wrong because not taking it just leaves pain and confusion wondering the "what if's."


Just show it to her.


Well, you didn't really explain what "mixed feelings" are but sounds like you want to get to know her better. If that's what you want, then yes, go for it. The worst thing that can happen is that she'll say no. The what ifs hurt a hell of a lot more than the no's in time, so give it a shot.


. . .

Hit it or take a shit on it.


doesnt always work.


Cut a hole in a box...........


It's better to regret something you did than something you didn't do.


Good quote to go with the "guy holding an axe" avatar.


LOL, so true...


Yeah but what seems to be the blood stain is on the blunt side...

Yeah man up, go for it.


True. the "what ifs" feel worse than rejection IMO.


I got the balls, i just need to wait til she comes home from vacation and then i'll sack up and make the plans.


I disagree - the "what if"s feel much better.


Seriously. Then muster a condescending tone and say something to the effect of, "I didn't take it up for the air, sweetheart."


How long before she returns?

We can count down the days like some reality show.


Hopefully it'll go better than the one about the guy digging his own pool by hand. I was looking forward to that one.


returns sunday. i know you guys love to joke as do i, but honestly this girl has to be the sexiest, prettiest, most gorgeous person i've ever met in my life and her personality is golden.


Take it from me, kiddo; get what you want and HOLD ONTO IT. The one that gets away will haunt you forever....almost as much as the one that never was.


I've met at least ten girls like this; so has every other guy on the forum.

Stick it in. Her pooper, silly.