Hey all, Thanks so much for all the advice. You guys are better than Oprah, or a therapist. ha ha I guess I knew I would have to tell him…but wanted to save him the embarrasement. He is a very proud man. Okay to also let you know, I know for a FACT that she is cheating, I just didn’t have a camera at the time. I kind of stumbled upon this situation and was in shock for a few days aafter. Only she does not know for sure that I saw what I saw. And yes they have 3 kids, 3 wonderful kids. I am almost sure my buddy will try and make things work…but that will be up to him. But I know he is taking the kids to grandma’s for the weekend as they have a wedding to attend out of town. When my buddy runs the kids up to Grandma’s in the morning I am going to pop in and confront her. I’m going to tell her to call this loser, yes in front of me and tell him it’s over. Then I am going to demand that she come clean with her husband, before the end of the weekend, or I will tell him what I know. If she says no…then I wait for him to get home and well…we will see how good of friends we are. Any way that’s the game plan, again thanks for all your help. This has eaten at me for long enough.
I really enjoy reading this forum. So many different views, some I agree with, some I don’t and a few well…??? My best to all of you.