Living beyond your means has very little to do with your income and everything to do with your spending habits.
I lived on $9 an hour when I dropped out of college and moved 800 miles away from home. It necessitated living in a shitty apartment in the bad part of town, having a roommate, working lots of overtime and a little bit of booze, but I got it done. Less than a year later I got promoted twice and was making almost $18 an hour, which I got in no small part because of all the overtime I worked and performed well with.
What Mercedes dealer is giving someone on welfare enough credit to buy one of his cars? What bank is giving someone on welfare a mortgage for a half million dollar home? I don’t see Walmart employees pulling into the parking lot with BMWs, MBs or Cadillacs. Poor people live beyond their means because that’s the only way they can live.
Well I suppose it would have started with hormone blockers back in the 7th grade, along with a basket full of mental health issues. I probably would have messed around with the wrong guys before I found one who was okay with me having a penis. After finding the right man and raising a dog together we would probably adopt a minority child and virtue signal all about it on social media.
I think it would have worked out pretty damn well. I think I’d be a great mother. Thanks for asking.