Whats the difference? Seriously,I'd love to know. I have so many friends from so many background and labels that depending on a situation,one group might consider it being fun and harmless,another set of people consider "douchey"
Ill give an example. Last Friday night,My friend Matt,his girl Jean,and I were going to a bar on Main Street to see one of his favorite indie bands. While riding the light rail,he was telling me about the street. (I never really hung out in Downtown) It was basically a street full of clubs and bars and when we got there,their were people all over the place. It was really fun. I suggest that we come back again later and go bar hopping. He explain to me that only douche bags do that "With their affliction shirts and designer jeans" I forgot to mention that he was a Hipster. I had fun that night and was able to grab a number from a tall brunette.
The next night,I hung out with my friend Rick and we both went to Richs that night. (Richs is a club in Midtown,its as close to a warehouse NY club as we can get and its one of the few places that regularly plays Trance) On the car ride there,I told him about the other night. I told him about the street,what was going on that night,how much fun I was having and he told me "Man,no offense but your friend sounds like a typical pretentious hipster douche bag" Again,I had fun that night and closed the night out with a new facebook friend which happens to be a short,busty Mexican girl.
Okay,so...which one of these situation was "Douchey"? They are both my bros but they are also very conflicted and dynamically different. What defines what is a douche? Was Matt a douche? Rick? ME?? Anyway,Im so glad I have that extraordinary ability to make any situation fun. Sorry for the long read,here are tits for your trouble.