OK, here is my situation. I’m 23 years old and have been “seeing” an older woman for the last year. We officially started dating about 2 months ago. There are a lot of differences, i’m 23, she’s 35, i’m white, she’s black, i’m still in school and have much to experience, she is working and said she would be ready for marriage if I were ready. We have a great time together, its not only about the sex (although it is the best), but we just have a great time. I have a lot of issues though, I get jealous easily, and don’t trust anyone. This causes me problems b/c she still likes to go out to clubs and bars all the time. I’m so lucky b/c she’s absolutely beautiful, I mean head turning. Every time she goes out she gets cards from recruits/agencies to be a model. She’s always asked or told she should be a victorias secret model, by men and women. Women comment to her all the time, say she’s beautiful, and of course so do guys that always hit on her. I’ve been getting increasingly jealous asking questions left and right about what people are saying to her, I mean she cant’ go anywhere without being hit on or getting approached, a comment, etc. I don’t know if I can handle someone so attractive anymore, its just too stressful. She swears she loves me, and only thinks about me, and tells everyone about me, but still, there are gonna be better, more attractive, wealthier, funnier guys and if EVERYONE is after her eventually she may take bait. She swears no, and that she can only think about me, but its just hard for me to believe that more isn’t going on w/ all her attention.
She tells me i’m the only guy she ever wanted, and all other guys wanted her and she wasnt happy. She says I should be a model, etc, and I do get approached by girls most nights I go out, and told I should model, but I worry more about her attention and of course a guy will never get the attention a girl will. Anyway, its not about who gets more attention, its just hard to deal with as I feel there’s always so much competition, and some of the clubs she goes to have a lot of attractive guys. I always had a jealousy issue, but it wasn’t as bad b/c her attention is to the extreme. To top it off, she has a perfect body (5’9", 110 lbs) NO fat, large breasts (real) and she wears short little half tops showing her stomach, which I feel makes her just begging for more attention. Even though she tells me she ignores it, but indirectly tells me she gets the attention by saying things like (my friends laugh/are jealous, etc , at the attention I get when I enter a room) Anyway, what do u guys/girls think?