I got a friend in my football team.
He got 170 kg squat, 240 kg deadlift and a 140 kg bench. I got a 180 kg squat, 240 kg deadlift and a 120 kg bench.
He is the bigger guy because he train a lot of high reps 8-15 reps. But you would not gain size if you did not have the strength for it.
I only train 1-3 reps mostly. So i only get strength and less hypertrophy.
Nobody gets big by doing 8-15 reps on 40 kg in the bench press.
So gain strength first then work in the higher rep ranges to build quality mass.