[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
[quote]Uncle Gabby wrote:
[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
[quote]Uncle Gabby wrote:
[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
As someone who calls on that particular taxi when dealing with crisis calls or working with kids too volatile to be in a caretaker’s car, I appreciate that you’re there. The cops as well. I was covering a crisis pager a couple of weeks ago and had to have a guy picked up.
I know it’s tedious, but it’s needed and valued.[/quote]
No, that’s not what I’m talking about. Those are legitimate calls. [/quote]
Oh! I would have said that they’re often gray area (chronic suicide threateners, many of them, of questionable legitimacy as emergencies. . .the “tedious” I was referring to). I was just saying that as one of the people charged with their care them I’m glad there are people to call.
Who are you talking about?
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That would be a very long rant. I’ll come back to it when I have time, but right now I’m at my part-time job.
For the record I have far more patience for the silly “attempted suicides” than most of my colleagues. You cannot leave a fellow human being in certain conditions, even when it is of their own making.
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I work with a number of these frequent flyers and have a great deal of sympathy. No one wants to be at the mercy of quick-firing emotions that are too strong (or the host too weak) to regulate. They also view themselves as many other people do - as utterly incompetent human beings - which is a source of agony.
“Of their own making,” yes and no. I lean more toward no. It’s almost like emotional amnesia - they genuinely can’t remember on any real level that these thoughts and behaviors bite them in the ass every single time.
I’m also acutely aware that eventually, working in the field I do, someone will suicide. It is statistically likely to be one of the frequent gesturers.
Sucks. I was being sincere when I said “tedious.” But it’s also heartbreaking. [/quote]
I was not talking about the genuinely mentally ill when I say of their own making. Some people have dug themselves into a pretty deep hole through drug and alcohol abuse. Sometimes the drugs started as prescriptions for genuine hurts, but the patient lets them take over their life. A lot of people will become suicidal when they realize how deep that hole has gotten.
I would also rank obesity and the maladies associated with it as of someone’s own making.
I’m working EMS tomorrow, and if we’re not busy I’ll try to describe the average taxi ride.