Stop making excuses. You’re 14? So what. You’re nearly a man, so act like one. The world isn’t yours, and every situation won’t go your way no matter how much you stamp your feet. Suck it up, adapt, improvise, overcome. Use your brain.
My son is now 15 and I would not put up with a temper tantrum. That’s for 2-year olds.
Dude, you need real friends as opposed to internet friends. Maybe then you wouldn’t be so angry.
[quote]Sikkario wrote:
Buy a gun.
Watch Death Wish with Charles Bronson.[/quote]
This from a POS that wanted to solve a fee dispute with Bank of America with a Tec-9. I hope this 14 year old knows to ignore and and all advice from this wanna be.
@Loose Tool: yea i know, ignoring him…
RIGHT NOW, this weakass kid made me mad by talking shit about me… omg…
[quote]ahzaz wrote:
@Loose Tool: yea i know, ignoring him…
RIGHT NOW, this weakass kid made me mad by talking shit about me… omg…[/quote]
Dude, you’re all over the fucking place. Talking shit about you? And that made you mad? That’s normal. The fact that you didn’t rip his throat out makes me wonder if you’re just overreacting to normal anger.
This is weird though - I mean, what are you wanting to hear? The advice given to so far has been sound. Quit posting about random things that make you angry and go get help if thats what you need. There’s no need to tell us everything that makes you upset - that shit happens to all of us everyday anyways.
[quote]xXSeraphimXx wrote:
Or whenever you feel something coming on just scream out serenity now.[/quote]
Insanity later.
OP, welcome to being a 14 year old pile of raging hormones.
Your acting like an idiot. OMGZ W3Ak N00b5 T@1K1nG S|-|It !!11! Just ignore them. And your really getting this mad, go outside and go for a run, thatll calm you right down.
Or you can stop juicing and stop being so hyoooge.
Get a barbell and some weights for home or, better yet, a heavy bag. Whenever you feel like throwing a hissy fit, go pump out some reps or take it out on the bag.
A more entertaining approach is to take up the drums. Your mom will hate it, but probably not as much as your tantrums.
Put on some running shoes and run until you’re not angry, or so tired you need to sleep. Every time you get angry go for a super long run. It is also a great time to get into your head and sort all the fucking shit out. If you run out of breath walk until you can run again and I’m serious get into that head of yours and find out whats pissing you off. You have to be running to do this or you can’t see through the angre. Best theropy I ever had!!!
Lift it out.
I can tell you right now if I did anything of the sort to my mom, my dad would of beat my ass. I think more kids these days need a good stern parental whooping.
Fail.
[quote]yasser wrote:
I even made my mom pass out
I can tell you right now if I did anything of the sort to my mom, my dad would of beat my ass. I think more kids these days need a good stern parental whooping.[/quote]
Agreed, my dad wouldve suckerpunched me if I did that.
There are 6 billion people on this planet and a very large percentage of us encounter things that piss us off on a regular basis. A very large percentage of that very large percentage have been able to find a way to deal with it that doesnt involve stamping their feet, screaming, fighting, or acting like preschoolers.
The rest of us have been able to figure something out. You do the same.
[quote]Stronghold wrote:
The rest of us have been able to figure something out. You do the same.[/quote]
Yep. It’s called “growing up.”
When I read the title of this thread, and saw who the OP was, my first thought was “if you’re 14 and NOT angry, there’s a problem.”
That is, of course, an overstatement. Many of us have been there. You start to feel pressure to manifest your violence physically because you want to regain control.
So many people can be unreasonable when you are 14. Your peers are unreasonable because they are teenagers, and that is in their nature. Your parents may be unreasonable because they are your parents, and do not necessarily feel any compulsion to act toward you in a rational manner (or make explicit their rationale).
Finally, you are unreasonable. Because you are 14. You want a lot of things that you just can’t have right now, and the sooner you deal with that, the better. The fact is, you actually have some of the best opportunities right now (or, soon) that you will ever have in your life.
Just make sure you don’t hit your mom in one of your throat-ripping rages, unless you’re drunk. Then it’s cool.
[quote]yasser wrote:
I even made my mom pass out
I can tell you right now if I did anything of the sort to my mom, my dad would of beat my ass. I think more kids these days need a good stern parental whooping.[/quote]
I respect my dad, but my fear toward his punishments and disappointing him keeps me from doing stupid shit.
I have a “short temper”. Yeah sounds pretty dumb right. But when I get mad, honestly, I just leave and walk around. Just walk and think. Why the fuck am I so mad? Once you realize how much of a dumbass you were are for being angry at such stupid and unimportant stuff, you will laugh at yourself. I am almost 15, and I have now realized. Most of the stuff I get angry at is just stupid shit that has no value at all.
Then there are the times when you are angry at reasonable thoughts, but think about this. What will being angry accomplish for you. You may get frustrated, but just leave, think about how being angry will not help but hinder you, and just calm down.
All 14 year olds have a short temper. They are annoying, cocky, mouthy, little bastards. Pretty much all of us were.
The only answer is to grow up, do the manly thing and control yourself.