Okay so here are some deets:
NOTE: Please skim down to the PRO/CON section if you already know the back history.
I also babble a lot so I will try to keep it simplified.
-Hi, my name is Jenn, and I’m a 26-year-old perma single.
-I met a boy a little while ago and we banged, etc, then this past week he asked me out to play mini-golf on saturday.
-I accepted the invitation and bought really awesomely nice underwear. Then I came on T-Nation and announced the good news to my cyber family.
-I Had trouble getting ahold of him yesterday, and at around 8:30 last night he texted me and told me he was drinking with some work buddies and they were planning on heading out to a bar somewheres or another.
-When he found out how pissed I was he was quite surprised and then he started freaking out and texting me like crazy telling me he was coming home and we should hang out instead, and we could still go glow bowling or something. Or if that didn’t work out we could hang out tomorrow (today) and the day after, yadda yadda.
-Copious amounts of I’m sorry’s and I started to feel really bad for being so angry. Maybe it’s becauase I am really REALLY not used to a guy apologizing to me since they usually, like, don’t.
ADVICE QUESTION: I don’t know what to do because this is a very new situation for me. A man/boy-dude giving a shit about what I think, or giving a shit if i am in his life or not, is brand new territory.
A lotta gals, most likely with way thicker skin than I, would say FUCK HIM, and move on, but I made a pro/con list and I wish you all to analyze and you can tell me what you think, ha-ha.
-He told me he sometimes sleeps with his Thor hammer and that to me was like a sign that he was the most perfect guy ever for me, HAHA.
-When I suggested we start some type of superhero vigilante justice league he hesitated for a reaaaallly long time before saying no. That tells me there’s hope, and he’s not horribly boring and has no sense of humor…
-He plays plants VS zombies so we can talk strategy. There’s more than one way to skin a cat. It’s not all about the peashooters and whatnot. THINK: COB CANNON.
-He wants to play perfect dark with me sometime. That is a HUGE deal cause that game is fucking awesome and playing with my kid kinda sucks. One because he gets scared so I have to follow him around protecting him, and two he wont let me use rocket launchers. WHAT DA FUCK.
N E WAY.
-He said he likes me and really likes hanging out with me.
Unimportant, but should be noted: He has a really deep voice and I think it’s really hot
-He made me cry, so continuing to hang out with him goes against my policy of hanging out with people who make me cry.
-I’m a fragile little baby, so if he does stuff like this, even if it’s only very rare, it will cause me much emotional distress.
-My vagina is too small so sex is really painful, and I know DN says that it’s supposed to fit, but I’m pretty sure who’s ever runnin’ the show down there decided to close up shop for the winter or something due to low enrollment.
-I think I am much more straight and narrow than he is. I’m kinda a goodie goodie and I get the feeling that he’s really not.
OKAY So if you have the time or whatever you can let me know your opinions and I will take them all into consideration.