Lol @OP attempt to ‘‘destroy’’ his wife’s lover.
I mean, seriously, have you asked your wife why she couldn’t resist emotionally cheating on you?
What I find funny is, how in relationships, the cheated party always sets up to ‘‘destroy’’ his or her other half lover/mistress. '‘Oh, man I’m gonna beat that bitch for stealing my man. Oh, I’m gonna chop that motherfucker’s balls for fucking my wife in the ass…oh, I’m gonna ruin him/her…’ LOL!
Come on, I understand that emotions are high at the moment, and that anger and revenge are what people feel and crave for, but you’ve got to look at the bigger issue first; WHAT THE FUCK HAS GONE WRONG WITH YOUR MOTHERFUCKING MARRIAGE? If your wife is a cheat, she’ll always be a cheat. If the lover is a fucking scum, then he’ll always be a fucking scum. Beat him, fuck him up, your life will never be the same 'cos the trust you had for the person who loved had vanished, and it’ll take time to rebuild it.
Going through her pc history to find the truth is a lil’ bit too late. This is the first thing you should have done before mentioning the texting and kicking her out. You would’ve shocked the hell outta her. Wanna go seek the truth now? Too late. She had a week to clear everything. And if she hasn’t, then you will get hurt. She might even end up resenting you for checking her every move. Your relationship will never be the same again.
It’s time you have a serious convo with your wifey. Ask her why she was willing to spread her legs for another man. And ask yourself why too. 'Cos I’m sure you got something to do with it too.
Jay Anderson, is the one sleeping well at night. He ain’t fucking married. He ain’t fucking bothered about you.
You’re the one with the sleepless nights and the broken/angry heart. And a potential broken marriage. Fucking fix this.