My ex and I ended our lengthy relationship about 1 yr and 3months ago. We were still back and forth for a while but this summer it seemed the nail was in the coffin when she started dating someone else.
I care very deeply for her, and her for me...it just didn't work out. Chalk it up to timing, shitty single girlfriend's (and their shitty single advice, and one hell of a cancerous life sucking thundercunt mother.
But that's not why I'm here so I digress...
She's been dating another guy for about 9 months now. This POS is 20 yrs her senior, has a kid, and an ex that he owns a company with. He told my GF that they had split for some time now and that they were strictly business partners, and that he was "stuck" because she was also the Mother of his kid.
When I started finding this information out about this guy I presented my concerns with my ex. But was quickly accused of trying to break up her relationship, bad mouth him, and one accusation even went as far to say I was doing this to get back with her. (really gotta love crazy single women who give advice to other girls...HAHAH)
Because we live in an ever shrinking world, it turns out that this POS's kid goes to school with one of my best friend's kids. AND my bf's wife is fb friends with him and his ex.
So my buddy calls me the other day telling me that his wife wants to call my ex and tell her that she's being cheated on.
Basically POS went away for Xmas and New Years with his ex and their kid, but without my ex(his gf of 9 months). He told my ex that it was a family/business trip and there wasn't anything he could do about her going.
However, during and after the trip the POSs ex has been posting pics of him and her and their kid, as well as just him and her. One pic is them at 11pm at a restaurant, without the kid. Ofcourse each pic has a caption next to it...and lets just summarize them all as saying they range from "Cute family" to "cute couple" to "hearts and smiley faces and this weird smiley face with heart eyes".
Another issue thrown into the ring here is that apparently, according to my buddy, these two still live together, or at the very least still own a house together that he occasionally still stays in.
At this point, I just don't really know what to do. Do I tell my ex and break her heart? Do I not tell her, wait for her to find out on her own which break her heart? Or do I tell her...have this be some weird misunderstanding, and risk being that crazy exboyfriend who's constantly trying to ruin her relationships...
Discuss you incredibly savvy, testosterone ladened men.