You should stop comparing yourself to others in the gym. that is a rookie mistake.
Are you progressing? If yes, then that is all you need. If not, then you may start looking around, and asking people. This is productive use.
If you are progressing every session still, you are in the most exciting and luckiest phase f your lifting career so enjoy it.
What i would say is that everyone is different, in terms of recovery, ability to put weight on the bar with novice programs(some people complete a 5x5 novice program with a 405 squat. most people do not) and naturally preferred style of training in terms of volume.
If they are 30lbs heavier than you this will also certainly factor in on the bench press.