Let’s take another look at this:
Over the years, my experience with friends has been similar to this: I join a new group, everything seems great for a couple of months, then I start to notice most people just plain can’t stand me. The context changes, but it’s always like this.
Up until I was 15 I’d never kissed a girl, but although I’m not particularly good looking, I now don’t have problems with that aspect. I’ve had 6ish girlfriends and have been with about 30 girls over the past 3 years. I’ve currently been with my gf for about 4-5 months.
Around November, I fought with some people belonging to my group and now pretty much all of them hate me. I’m only left with my best girl friend (which also used to be somewhat of a friend with benefits), who is the only person I really trust apart from my mother, and a handful of acquaintances that I go out with.
Consider your attitude in the context of the greater life problem you posted a month ago, where one by one people get to know you and pull away, disgusted. Does it work?
I haven’t seen MGTOW in your posts, I’m probably not reading attentively, but let’s ask this: is it okay for a girl to use a guy who likes her; the beta orbiter? Rides to school, paying for dates, weed if they’re into that - and then she moves on as soon as she gets someone she really likes. Is it okay for her to do the “I’m not ready for sex” thing and still enjoy the rides and dinners and Valentine’s Day candy and etc? Is it okay if she does that but is blowing or having sex with the guys she really likes; the alphas? Or would it be behavior we might all agree is disgusting? Not because a guy paying for a date is gross, but because coldly using him for that is.
So meet your equal-but-opposite: she is the moderately attractive girl (let’s say a 7 on a 1-10 scale) who goes to bars with her girlfriends to score drinks from guys who believe her flirting indicates real interest - they’re thinking they’re probably going to score. But they’re not. Unless she wants to settle down - maybe she’s pregnant now and the baby daddy isn’t interested because he’s also an immature, self-centered prick. So she grabs onto the Nice Guy and keeps him through the hard years of infancy and toddlerhood, then drops him when the kid hits school and she has enough time and freedom to start looking around again for something better. No big deal for her - she’ll keep half his shit regardless, so replacing him with a sexier model costs nothing. She can always settle down with another sucker later!
That’s what I see in your posts. If you were an 18-year-old girl complaining about not having friends because she can only get along with the guys hoping to score with her, whom she uses freely as long as they’ll tolerate it, I would say she should rethink her motives and actions. Sure, the guys orbiting her have free will. They don’t have to keep trying to buy her affection. But that doesn’t change that she’s not nice and that’s why no one likes her.