My girlfriend of 2 and a half years just decided to dump my ass telling me that she needs to be independent. She said that all she could ever do was think about me and how to make our relationship work. And then all of a sudden she hits me with " I don't want to try anymore". I basically fed and took care of this girl in a million and one ways over the years so you can say I am quite crushed. However I am a T-Man and I will not let this ruin who I am determined to become.
The girl was abused in every way possible by her mother, father and uncle. I still want to help her to at least get some psych help before she grows into a totally cold and emotionally shut off person like her father (who abandoned her at 16). Should I just bow out gracefully and let it be?? Or shall I pull a say anything scene and get this girl back. I don't mean to sound like a dork, it's just that I love her and don't want to give up even though she's a total psycho.