actually, what pissed me off was the fact that he felt the need to talk about desire, as if it were a missing ingredient. i asked for a workout routine and some diet tips to suggest for a very hard working man who very often has to change his plans from what hed like to do to what he has to do.
all the desire in the world isnt going to give him 25hr days, and for the time being its not going to relieve him of his responsibilities. as for Ironhearts background, and the things i dont know about him, id say there is most likely plenty there. i remember reading something about him training people. i think it would be a world of fun to make a living off of training people, because that truly would be doing something that you love, so if that is the case, great for him.
im sorry if neither of you understand someones frustration when they ask specifically for diet and training tips and they get back info about "DESIRE". i thought i was being clear with my reason for seaking out advice on these topics, but for anyone that missed it: i am 20 years old, i have had success in training myself, but have never trained anyone else, let alone a 43 year old man, whose body may or may not be able to handle what mine can.
at no point was i looking for motivational quotes or tips on how to give my uncle a pep talk to get out of his rut. i also mentioned that he has benched 450 in his lifetime and that im sure he can still hit 405lbs. clearly he didnt pop out of the womb benching 450+, perhaps there was a little bit of DESIRE involved there.
as far as slapping the shit out of someone, and where that would land me, i think maybe you should hold off on attempting to be all high and mightly and delived some legal babble about 1st degree assault and its consequences, because in reality, i said "id like to"--which is a figure of expressing my frustration for Ironheart's "DESIRE" comments. f
urthermore, saying that "i'd like to" as opposed to "i'm going to" (which would be hard to do through a computer) is in no illegal, or even threatening as it would have been if i had said "i'm going to". as far as if i had pushed it further to say "i'm going to" the most Ironheart could do is get himself a restraining order, and thats pushing it big time, considering this is all via internet.
in order to do that he would have to have some way to prove that i have the ability to find out who he is/where he lives, and i promise you, i dont, but if thats something the both of you would like to explore, be my guest. point being, you can hold off on your witty "ask your uncle what this will land you" comments, as if i have no knowledge of crimes and the laws that are in place to protect citizens from them, as well as the punishments that are in place to bring justice to those that break the laws anyway. anyway, i suppose that if either or both of you want to continue this water fight, we can, but id rather be done with it.
as far as hiding behind a keyboard, that is not me. i would be strongly, strongly stand behind a T-Nation invitational, no-holds-barred full contact fighting competition, because there are some people that i really would like to [legally] have a couple 3 minute rounds with. if either of you want to make some calls and set something up im all for it