This story is a bit long but if nothing else it is entertaining. My girlfriend of 5 years is an exotic dancer/waitress in a strip club. She does not dance as much anymore because it was just getting to be a little too much for me. Strippers, at least in Boston, are somewhat hard to find and they will put just about anyone on stage. Yet, my girlfriend is a legit dancer - very very nice body, very athelitic, pretty face. Saturday night she left for work at about 7:00 PM. At about 7:40 I get a call from one of the other dancers asking me if she is coming in. I say, “oh, she’s not there yet?” and the girl said “no”. Its a 20 minute ride to work so now I think she is out screwing around on me. I call her cell and no answer. I jump in my car and head for the club. I go around the block where she works and see her car parked outside the club. So I call her again, and ask her where she is? I can hear music playing and it sounds like she is at the club. She asks me in. The whole thing was a mistake, she was at work, the other girl didn’t see her. So I go in and have a drink (I almost never go to this club). She is introducing me to her friends, and one of the, upon seeing me starts flipping out, “Oh my god, he is sooo beautiful, I can’t believe it,” and she is jumping around saying this over and over. And the girl is hot. My girlfriend makes a joke about her trying to steal me from under her nose but she takes it well. I see the girl dance and I like what I see. She is a gymnast, very athelitic, tight. After about a 1/2 hr I leave.
2 weeks before this I asked my girl if she would, as a gift to me, put a 3 some together. She could have been offended but wasn’t and said she would try.
I’m driving home and thinking, man, I wish she would do the math and get this girl in our bedroom. And I go home and I am thinking about this over and over. about 2 hrs later my girl calls and asks me if I want to take her and the girl away for skiing/a 3 some. I’m not sure if she is testing me but I ultimately say yes definately and I will pay for everything with a big smile on my face. She brings the girl home that night but tells me we will not sleep together or do anything until we are away. She told me not to do anything with her alone or behind her back and I say I wouldn’t do something like that after she was so good to do this for me. I am sure she gave the girl the same speach or worse.
We get to the hotel/resort. I go skiing and they stay at the room (they don’t ski). I come back and my girl is dead asleep (she was up the whole night before). I tried to wake her up but she was really out. Me and the girl go to the pool and swim. We did nothing sexual. She said I had an awesome body (I am a T man) but that was about it. We get back to the room and my girl is up and she flips that we were out together. Yet, we assure her nothing happened and she is OK after about an hour. After this the girl is acting more and more distant to me. I ask my girlfriend what is going on and she asks the girl (discretely), and she says everything is fine and a GO for tonight. We go out to dinner and there is another arguement between the girl and my girlfriend. Things appear to be falling apart. We go back to the hotel and now the girl seems more interested in my girlfriend than in me. When crunch time comes she does not come thru. I was really pissed. I know you girls are going to think I am a jerk for setting this whole thing up but you guys understand all too well what something like this means to a guy, especially I guy who is starting to get a little on the old side. I was walking on air one minute and livid the next. I really was pissed because I did not have the experience. It would have been something I could remember when I reflected back on my life. I had one other 3 some and that went off but someone, it seems, is always offended that they are being left out.
I don’t get it. The girl seemed real attracted to both of us and seemed to start having second thoughts as the time drew near. I was really pissed (I spent a good deal of $$$ and missed a day of work) but I am over it. What do you think went wrong?