Dude, please stick around, we need some posters like you around. A few things,
1.) You look awesome - Leg separation is already solid and you still have over two weeks to go. Nice.
2.) Please, for the love of all that is holy, do not be dissuaded by some of the threads around here. A lot of them pick right down to dick-waving contests - if those are avoided or taken in stride there's some good knowledge to be had around here.
3.) Not sure how new you are to here, but the T-Cell is a great place to start if you want some legitimate and quality reads. It's not very active, but there's terrific threads and they go back quite a ways.
Nice to have you.