[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
[quote]batman730 wrote:
[quote]pushharder wrote:
[quote]dave670 wrote:
But I take no pride in the company’s work as a whole. As I’ve said, I’m a sensitive creative guy. Boorish, brutish shit like what we do doesn’t appeal to me.
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As the owner and manager of a construction company this says all I need to know about you. [/quote]
This struck me as well. OP, you may have a hormone problem, may have a drug problem and may have a self-esteem/depression problem. However you definitely have an attitude problem.
ANY job you choose to do in exchange for compensation is something you sign you name to, metaphorically speaking. It is important by virtue of the fact that you have agreed to do it. Doing it well is a point of pride, regardless of how menial you may (erroneously) perceive it to be. If you got a job twirling a sign at the side of the road for a pizza joint it would behoove you to become the best damn pizza sign twirler that ever was and that is something to be proud of.
Your entire attitude/world view is in need of an overhaul. No amount of facial hair will make any difference until you get your head around a few things. At least you are beginning to ask questions…[/quote]
I agree with this, and am offended for Push and the others here who’ve been labeled “brutish and boorish.”
I will also say that my boyfriend, an engineer, worked his way through college working construction and does brutish, boorish work as a hobby. He cuts and splits our firewood, which comes from trees he takes down as he builds and improves a road up the mountain he owns. We bought a house together a year ago and he has replumbed much of it, rewired some of it, regraded part of the yard, and together we have installed a patio and front walkway, and added a stone wall. Soon we’ll start tearing down for an add-on. I can’t even begin to describe how sexy I find him when he’s doing this brutish, boorish shit, and my friends are very open about their envy. Men who can do things are sexy. (Please all note that I am once again resisting the urge to post pics of Hockey, despite being so sexy when doing brutish shit.)
I am under the impression that he finds me just as sexy when I’m wearing my “worker-guy clothes” and throwing firewood into the truck, struggling to move big rocks, or manning the backhoe. Maybe this wouldn’t be the case if I were a laborer by trade, but I’m not. I’m a slender, bookish therapist. A sensitive, creative type. I don’t feel brutish or boorish at all when working hard, any more than I do when I’m dripping sweat and wiping my nose on my shoulder while I work out. I feel strong and dedicated and like I’m building aspects of myself that will stand me in good stead in all arenas of my life.
People who can do things are sexy. People who do them well and cheerfully are delightful and tend to be sought out as companions and more.
Oh - and I get scolded (though not yelled at) as a low-ranking worker guy, too. One night he woke me talking in his sleep. He said, really forcefully: “I will not tolerate a curved line.” Who do you imagine he was talking to? I’m thinking’ it was me. That’s life! Meanwhile, I help him understand the finer points of bed-making and other such. I’m sure my tone gets forceful sometimes, too.
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damn, girl. I actually think I fancy your boyfriend a bit. You’re one lucky lady!