I hope this helps. Might not be your problem but I’m the guy on this forum board that has had this issue and speaks freely with hopes that I can help others with my experience and etc…
I’ve been asking my doc and reading on this topic for a while now and I have found that erection strength and consistent morning wood can take up to a year or more for men on trt. During this time we have to be careful to not over stimulate or overdo it. We have to allow the body to heal and come together. Yes it’s hard because we get labido and aroused much easier when we start trt, but at times we look down and get angry when the Penis will Not get erect. Some do not get fully erect and others are touch and go.
Before trt and in early years I had huge issues and found The following to work if My quality of sex and erections is lacking. We should not play with it; don’t test it, and if you cannot get an erection do not force it. Especially if you feel the need to have sex and cannot get erect. There is a disconnect. The brain is fried for whatever reason.
Reasoning behind this. Our brain has been re wired to become erect with touching and physical stimulation. Or watching porn and self stimulation. It’s unatural.
Natural is When a man gets erect by looking at a woman and finding her attractive or if she’s touching kissing and rubbing on you. Pops a tent and is ready to go. Old age should not be a factor.
Today the cultprit for majority of our civilizations Ed problems are related to pornography and masturbation. This damages the brain and sex life. The brain gets used to being aroused when something is shown on the screen. This teaches the brain to use up all the chemicals pertaining to Sex (dopamine and etc) and Not when you have a woman in front of you and getting physical.
When someone with porn addiction gets into bed with a real woman the brain doesn’t know how to respond because it’s so used to having it happen on a screen. Neuroplasticity.
I could go on but you get the idea.
I had to Abstain for at least 2 months and got better over the course of 1 year. If i had watched porn for ten years it would take longer.
Porn isn’t the only way to make this Ed happen. It happens by over masturbation and stimulation. Especially if we do this daily or very often.
Neuroplasticity. Look it up. I hope this helps add to the discussion and helps you look at this from a different POV.