Had to have a trainer at the gym give me a lift off on my top double on bench 365. Second rep he got close with his hands and I told he I had it letting all my air out then I missed the lift. That one pissed me off a bit cause it was there. My best ever double is 370 so I’m closing in.
You dont seem to have a lot of luck with good spotters in your gym. LOL
I think it’s just the heavier the weight the more nervous they are. Had one kid tell me he didn’t feel comfortable side spotting my 560 squat double. I just snagged another person.